Recently i am feeling a little bit sad that i will never be pregnant/have another baby

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But i dont know why. When i had my 2nd child, ds, i felt that i had finished for good, and never wanted any more.

but now dh and i have split, and he had a brand new baby with his new gf, i feel jealous and very sad. i already had dd with my first partner so have 2 kids from 2 dads, and i dont want 3 by 3!

i guess when i was still with dh i still always had the option of having another, but now the choice has been taken away from me. Plus he has a baby with another woman and its killing me.

Absolutely, madamez!

Hi dreamteamgirl
My advice, go for it. When I was 38 I nearly spilt up with my now ex DH as it happened I waited till I was 42, now that really is too late to meet someone and start again and have a baby !! But if you feel like that now the feeling will probably get stronger. Get out there and get yourself inseminated !!!!! I wish I'd been a bit more decisive a few years back.

I'm another one with 2x2 that would hate to become 3x3.
Also dd1 is nearly 11 and dd2 is 5 and allowing at least 2 years to meet someone and decide i want a baby with them means far too big an age gap.
But i'm sure if xh has a child with slutface the delightful woman he left me for i will be heartbroken all over again.
I loved being pregnant and all stages of childhood and would have loved to have at least one more, but xh wasn't so keen, so sods law if he gets to be the one to do it all over again!

sorry but i am 4 by 4 i cant feel bad because i loved all partners and love all my children even more,plus my grandchildren i wouldnt change anything

You have nothing to feel bad about, APC.