Any other dating/friendship sites out there like faceparty??

[minorityrules]

I have been a member of faceparty for a long time but have found out today, they are getting rid/making them not welcome of members over 35

I am a member of dating direct, match.com and plenty of fish but I prefer the way faceparty works (free for a start but it seems to be more tolerant of the larger formed lady, more openminded members) Facebook and myspace are too complicated, I like doing random searches on all sorts of people for conversation and maybe coffees

So am looking for a less serious, openminded, free place

I've been told LoopyLove is good and more fun and light-hearted than Match.com. I'm on Match and have found it quite straightlaced; everyone's into "staying in with a dvd and bottle of wine" or "nights out with friends"!!! LoopyLove isn't free but it's not massively expensive, I've had a look but not joined (currently seeing someone and he told me about it so thought prob not a good idea to join up!)