we were never married and he doesn't have parental responsibility. Also he has only seen ds once when he was 6wks old, his choice not mine. ds is now nearly 4 and I was thinking of moving to NZ by about 2010. Would ds's dad be able to stop me? I would be surprised if he was even bothered but I want to know where I stand if he does decide to make a fuss. This is all assuming that I am going to tell him...