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farking bollocksy ex again

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MascaraOHara · 16/04/2008 14:48

when you leave someone does their sole purpose in life become to continually throw a spanner in the works?

blardy men.

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lostdad · 16/04/2008 14:49

Ooooo - sexist...

talie101 · 16/04/2008 14:56

....works the other way too....my exh LEFT ME but continues to verbally abuse me and upset mine and the childrens lives as and when he pleases! Don't think he'll be happy until he's taken every last penny from me and driven us into the ground!! ......... can't understand why this happens when he supposedly left for the woman he wanted to be with and has the life he wants?!!!

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MascaraOHara · 16/04/2008 14:56

and blardy ex women too!

(better?)

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MascaraOHara · 16/04/2008 14:58

x-posts Tallie.

I didn't mean specifically the dumpee.. I meant just exs in general.

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lostdad · 16/04/2008 15:15

Much better.

Yes...bloody exs. If I could wish one thing on my ex, it would be that she wakes up one morning and appreciates the situation she has put herself, our son and me in.

No chance of that ever happening though.

I can't even bring myself to hate her.

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MascaraOHara · 16/04/2008 15:32

No I don't hate the father of my dd either.. I don't feel anything at all towards him... although he's not seen her for a few years now, which is for the best (thought I'm sure that's not way he's stayed away).

My ex boyf has just started texting me again.. saying he's been thinking a lot about things since we had a sort of row a week or so ago (split last summer).. and here's me finally feeling sane enough to start moving on.

ARGH!

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littlewoman · 17/04/2008 11:45

Blardy everyone who thinks they can behave in any way they see fit and then just stroll right back into your life as though they never had behaved in that way. Grrr. Hope that covers all angles

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MascaraOHara · 17/04/2008 12:12

lol I think it does! AND WHY.. are there so many of these people in the world??

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lostdad · 17/04/2008 12:13

..except the ones who stroll right out of your life, expect you to go on as if it never happened and forget you've got a child in every way possible except the standing order you pay each month.

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MascaraOHara · 17/04/2008 12:14

yes and those too LD..

Maybe this should just be a 'blardy everyone who gets on our wick' thread.

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lostdad · 17/04/2008 12:14

Well MascaraOHara - there are some of us out there who take our promises and commitments deadly seriously!

lostdad · 17/04/2008 12:14

People who aren't like my ex I mean...!

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