Hopefully it won't come to this meaning court ect, but if it did how does it work? I provide all the care for my children already, soon to be ex partner moving out soon. In our relationship I work part time, sacrificed my career, do school drop offs pick us, every medical/dental appointment, the person who sits in a n e if needed. I do bath time, bed time, homework, clubs extra activities-piano lessons gymnastics swimming. I do all the cooking and cleaning. Sorry currently writing this super quick, but if it ever ended up in court for the majority of custody surely would it go in favour? We have three children.