Hi all,
Has anyone managed to convince a narcissist ex that he should contribute more money than the CMA minimum amount (we haven't gone through CMA he just pays what the calculator says each month). I don't want to go through CMA as 1. Why make things worse and 2. He now lives with very new girlfriend and her child so the amount could go down.
Nursery fees are more than double his CMA amount and of course then I pay all the baby costs and activities and all the housing costs alone.
He values his ego and seeing himself as an incredible guy and being seen by others as a good dad. He also sees himself as 'logical' not emotional.
Does anyone have any phrases or key points they made that worked to make a man like this pay more money? He could definitely afford to pay a few 100 more each month.