my first snog in 4 years!

[beansmum]

just wanted to tell somebody who might appreciate how exciting this is! Went away for my sisters birthday for one night without ds and snogged an actual man! flatmate of my cousin, very nice but a bit young for me. still excited now!

it's like riding a bike isn't it!

An actual man???

Good for you!!

....an actual man!

Whoohoo!! Good for you

still got that weird excited happy feeling, been turning my computer on all day for no good reason except to see if he has left me any messages on facebook (he has!)

5 years younger than me though and I'm not that old

Tell, tell...how old?

very very embarrassing..... he's 21

Wow must be exciting 4 u x

very

don't know what to do now. have almost convinced myself that he is far too young and should just stop the whole thing before it gets complicated. I don't know what to DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Am so very .
Go for it!
I would prefer younger than old gimmer!

Ooooh how exciting.

Right, stop thinking, and concentrate on having some fun girl! That's what you should do.

loling at actual man!

Good for you!! Very as well!! And if he puts a smile on your face, who cares about 5 yrs??? Enjoy it - you deserve a bit of fun!! It's not like you have to marry him, but who knows........? Keep us posted!! xx

thing is he lives far far away and will be tricky to see him and have ds to think about and he might not even be that keen and he's a student and I'm now getting over the excitedness and just stressing.

good kisser though

Like I said, stop thinking about it all! Just enjoy that you had a great snog and may have another one at some point No need to get yer knickers in a twist about it

Another face here. Would settle for a quick peck at the mo.

ah we laugh at complicated! don't think about it - go with the flow. get in all the kissing you can I say

ok. one last thing and then I will get over myself and stop thinking about it. If he has sent me a message, then I have replied, he has sent me another one etc. Is is ok to send him another message before he has replied to my last one and am I over analysing this situation slightly given that it was only a snog (although we did share a sleeping bag) sorry will go away now

well done

enjoy it and have fun, dont think too far ahead, just go with the flow

lou - your influence is rubbing off on me far too much! lol.

agree thou - dont' text him back, wait for him to contact you now.

lol

too late! think it was ok though, nothing important just nonsense chat. and looking back through my inbox realised that he had sent me 3 messages in a row. now I'm going to have to worry about whether he is too keen and maybe a bit weird.

I am so sad. just shows how exciting my social life is when one guy sending me some perfectly innocent messages can get me this worked up.