If there is any justice in the world...............

[nutcracker]

The guy from school that I was madly in love with when I was eleven, and who has accepted my friend request on facebook, and sent me a message, will now fall madly in love with me.

giggles, keep us posted

I seriously doubt that justice will prevail, but I will keep updated

Just out of curiousity, did you check his relationship status on his profile???

Just being practical for starters....

ooh I hope so!

Am just going off to find out if the boy I was madly in love with is on facebook!!!

Status is single

I'm only joking anyway, he is a single bloke with no ties etc etc so I'm not under any illusions that he will be remotly interested in me. Nice to have a chat though, has been years since I last spoke to him.

sending you good karma, hope you snag ya man

Well he replied, told me what he has been up to for all these years. No kids, not married etc.
Turns out he now lives in the next road to my dad which is a bit spooky.
He has asked me about my kids and how i find it being a single mum, which I thought was nice of him to ask as i'm sure he probably isn't that interested.
He signed off by saying he hoped me and my family were well and to keep in touch.

Aww how sweet. He definatly wasn't that sweet when I knew him LOL.

What shall I put back ?? Is it even worth trying to flirt do you think ? Nah probably not.

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LOL Aimsmum, I thought exactly the same thing, along with 'shit the times i have gone there looking like shite'.

Have replied, with a couple of very subtle flirty bits, and asked him how long he has been single etc.

Tis nice to have a chat with him if nothing else anyway.

why wouldnt he be interested in you?

flirt damn you!

LOL

Well he is young free and single, can pop off on holiday etc whenever he fancies and basically isn't gonna want someone with 3 kids is he ?

I tried to keep it slightly funnyish and did flirt ever so slightly.

God I used to be such a good flirt at school, what happened LOL.

why not?

give him a chance to make his own mind up

THIS is why you reckon you are not worth anyones time, because you dont believe it yourself, so dont give them a chance

There are loads of men who would be overjoyed to be with you, just stop putting yourself down !

Ok Lou, will stop thinking the worst, I promise.

I did ask him what he was doing at the weekend, but not in a 'fancy taking me out' kinda way LOL.

you must

flirt and dont worry about it, you might even like it and the response you get

Yeah, I think I am just worried I wil get rejected again. Have already been down the road of a bloke saying yeah i like you, but the kids thing is a no no.

but you are thinking way too far ahead

there is nothing wrong with just going and meeting someone and having a few drinks and a laugh and seeing how it progresses

you cant only ever go out with a guy assuming its long term, so just enjoy it for the moment

True

Will update if I get any good messages LOL.

good luck, remember its fun, and you have nothing to prove

if anything they have to prove they are worth your time, you are the one with kids to juggle and more commitments

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I thought about that Aimsmum, but dunno.

His hotmail addy is on his fb page and I did think of just adding it to my msn and seeing if it worked, but thats a bit cheeky I suppose.

just do it woman!

if he didnt want people randomly adding him he wouldn't have put it online for everyone to see!

Hmmm

Will have a think whilst putting kids to bed LOL.