My ex has the D.C. EOW - no other involvement and he refuses to be flexible on contact. If he doesn’t get the days he wants during the holiday I received a torrent of abuse.
This year he gave me the wrong dates and when I told him I’ve made arrangements after he confirmed he stopped maintenance but claimed it was a separate matter and he’s only doing the dates of his choosing.
The following day I received a dissertation from his wife, rambling on about things unrelated to the D.C. but personalised and threatening court action.
I’ve never met her, and when I asked her to not contact me but find someone else if the Dcs father refuses to communicate because I won’t agree to his date change, I received another dissertation again making very little sense other than complaining about me.
I work full time and pretty much parent full time with zero support. I’m exhausted.
Any clue how to deal with this person as it’s terrible he’s sent her to do his dirty work.
Added to this the D.C. don’t particularly like her but that’s irrelevant other than I feel sad they have this person in their life.