Aibu

[Rustyredcar]

Aibu that I feel angry and upset that my ex has sleepovers knowing that my Lo's will no doubt be getting in bed during the night and or the morning.

A couple weeks after I moved out... And on "break"

Am I supposed to be ok with this?
Am I over reacting?

Sorry you’re going to have to be more clear. I can’t tell what you’re asking from your post.

Sorry your post really is not clear

think op means he has women sleeping over with the child is there

So your ex is having new partner/s overnight?

I'm guessing that he has a woman stay overnight in his bed when he has the kids too so they are being exposed to someone who might not be around very long.

Yes it is not reasonable for your child to share a bed with their dad's gf of a few weeks.

If the kids aren't there then he can have whoever in his bed.

Sorry if I was a bit vague.

So I suspected my then OH was cheating never came clean.
I left after a few months of it going on as I couldn't deal with the lies etc.

We agreed to go on a break, she requested 3 months I went along as everything was just as blur.

It came to my attention that she was having sleepovers with other guys. Within the first week.

My girls DDS 4 and 5 and tell me mums having sleepovers and other guys in her bed when they go in.

Im worried that my DDS will grow up thinks Ng this is ok?

Well no she shouldn't be having men in her bed if they kids are getting in half way through the night. That's disgusting.

Having a boyfriend than you've been with for years is different to bringing random people to bed. But if the kids aren't there she can do what she wants.

Doesn't sound okay to me
YANBU