My ex didn’t bother to see our kids for 2 years he came back recently asking for contact (posted about this) and he came down to see the kids, he has seen them once and now vanished again! I am totally confused by this behaviour I really don’t get seeing your kids once and then not bothering again (I blamed myself for him not seeing them even though I knew 100% it wasn’t my fault but I kept thinking maybe I should have been more willing to let him take advantage!)
Well anyway posted on a single parents group about it and all I get is men making excuses for him, apparently he was so upset seeing them again that he’s had no choice go back away to “protect his mental health” or seeing them again has caused too much upset and he was so upset by it that now he can’t see them anymore? I mean wtf?