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Advice on ex seeing daughter

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Babygirlmum · 18/09/2022 13:32

I have let my ex see my daughter after him leaving me while pregnant and not wanting to be a dad to her this was a very hard decision I made to meet up with him and let him see her bare in mind my daughter is 5 months old now and he has only just met her, I have always felt uneasy about this situation after what he put me through while pregnant and said she will grow up without a dad but after I got in contact with cm he suddenly wanted to be a dad, but a story short he wanted to see her quite regular witch he lives an hour and a half away and works full time but on his days off he was making it his priority to see her, so yesterday was his day to come and see her we had a bit of a disappointment on Friday night with each other, Saturday came around the day to see her and he has chosen to go out drinking with his mates get drunk and suddenly forgets about our daughter and no longer cares and then blames me for picking and choosing so the way I am looking at this is he's chosen to go out and get drunk on his day off over seeing his daughter on his only full day off, he got in at half 4 this morning so while he was supposed to be seeing our daughter that is what he has done instead, what should I do? I am really finding co partnering with him really hard I don't know what's right or wrong when it comes to this stuff anymore? Maybe I shouldn't of ever agreed to him seeing her in the first place he has made me believe that he is going to work hard for her and make her his first priority and after last night that is just not the case at all. After going home when he seen her he would message me to say how much he pissed her and when he gets the chance to see her he fails.

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Aquamarine1029 · 18/09/2022 13:36

I wouldn't communicate with him anymore, about anything. If he really wants to see his child, he can go to court for access.

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