Remind me next time to NOT believe the $%%$$% (bad language included inside)

[Alambil]

What a Fucking Wanker. He REALLY is.

You know I was meant to meet that bloke who disappeared last time...

Guess what happened?

Well done - was a no-show again.

Fucking bastard wanker.

WHY THE HELL can't men just say "sorry, changed my mind" - I WOULDN'T CARE ...

I do care however about going AN HOUR out of my way for a no-show.

Fortunately all was not lost cos Hawkin's Bazzar was there so I got some stocking fillers but REALLY - is a quick text/email TOO hard to send?

I am NOT forgiving this time - he can sod RIGHT off.

poor you, sounds dire

what was his excuse last time?

That's just it - there wasn't one. He just disappeared 4 days before the date and so I guessed it wasn't going ahead; spoke to him this week though and he was all up for meeting today.

Never give him another chance - messed you about twice. If he makes contact again tell him to fark off.

Yeah absolutely will. Not standing for being treated like this; once you can forgive (anything could have happened etc) but twice is beyond a joke.

Lewisfan - There are lots of nice men out there, no need to waste your time with people like that.
Happy Christmas by the way - hope you are well x

Am well in myself - just peed off! You are right though - no need to waste time with losers.

Have a great Christmas yourself

LewisFAN I have been there and bought the ticket. It's bloody infuriating isn't it?

My rule is two strikes and OUT!!

NO extra chances.

Can you tell this has happened to me before and that I was REALLY pissed off? Huh ?

Not worth it. Just move on!

Nah, can't tell at all

2 strikes and out is definitely the way to go though. What twit treats people like that?! No wonder he is single ffs!

(still mightily pissed off!)

"No wonder he is single ffs! "

EXACTLY. These men will still be on their own at the age of forty plus, wondering what went wrong and why no women appreciate how sensitive , creative and fabulous they are...

OH PLEASE!

I think you have given him more than enough chances, dont make any more excuses for him and just see him for what he is, a waster !!

Oh Lewis, darling I am so sorry this happened, he was obviously a complete nutter, you had no way of knowing so do not in any circumstances start blaming yourself, or get angry with yourself.
You did not know.
He is a wanker, and he was good at pretending to be nice.

Glad you got rid before anything happened though, it is better that way
If he tries to contact you at all, ever again, please tell me and I will personally go round to his and deliver some pain.

lol TFA pain sounds good! I fear it would be wasted on him though - knowing that I'm annoyed will only feed his weird mental state as it is.

LewisFan - I think we may have met the same man..are you in Edinburgh by any chance ??

Nope - seems like there are more of these men than decent ones.

Oh well... back to the drawing board!

Yeah, I had a feeling there may be more than one. Damn it all to HADES.

oh tell me about it, bloody coward wankstains arent they

honest to god i bet any woman has bigger balls than any guy

lou, you are so right.

The thing I just don't understand is...

Why make a date/arrangement/whatever and then just not turn up? If you have no intention of turning up why make an arrangement in the first place?

It's so bloody infuriating and disrespectful!

Some of these men...I wonder if they have ever, mentally, progressed beyong adolesence.

I mean of course beyond adolesence...

because they have no backbone