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First time out last night in town - OMG clubs have changed since my day! & today H is really shitty.

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DavidTennantsMistress · 01/12/2007 16:39

Since when was it acceptable in a club to grab your boobs and bum (i'm talking two complete strangers here)?? surely in the 6 years it's been since I went out clubbing it's not changed that much?? and they have vibrators in the loos now you know?? what's that all about?

H was out last night as well but came home early as it was crap out apparently - I did ok! lol. today he was asking aboutt he money and what i'd taken out of the bank (the same I always do for the bills and maint etc) and I get 'why am I paying your phone bill (bt line rental) erm cos we're still in the qtr when you lived here - alone I might add ringing 090 numbers and I can't afford the £45 p/m direct debit out of the £250 I get along with DS's stuff and everything else.

why is it when I want to do something he makes it as hard as possible for me to do it and then when I do get out anyways he's so shitty the next day it's unbelievable. I mean does he seriously think he can still control my actions etc?

either that or he's been shagging someone who doesn't like him seeing his son and is moaning about H paying for the gas/elec as well (also DD from when he lived in the house but he's not actually paying it) god roll on 6 weeks when I can move into my own house and forget about him.

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HairyIrene · 01/12/2007 16:44

sounds complicated!
the clubs and the homelife ...

dont let him see that he can rain on your parade..

sounds like you deserved a night out..those clubs though
i left when they sold you tap water so that sounds odd to me!

DavidTennantsMistress · 01/12/2007 16:48

lol. ah I was on bottled water at £1 but was a good night deffo long over due. Just annoys me that he can go out with his mates and i'm expected to pine and wait around for him - thing is thou i'm not having it any more. Why should I stay in just to keep him happy? why should he be allowed to have fun but i'm always the one left with DS?

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HairyIrene · 01/12/2007 17:50

well quite dtm..

and just cause his was crap, he's being a bit mean imho...

macdoodle · 01/12/2007 18:54

Mine is always an arse when I have been out by myself...even though I don't go clubbing (too old too pregnant)...but ...going on spa day treat tomorrow with my mates and he is angry cos he has to have DD on "his day off"...from what exactly

DavidTennantsMistress · 02/12/2007 17:50

tossers arn't they really. I came back in and he was ok again - I should have said to him just cos u didn't manage to get a shag don't take it out on me - idiot man! lol.

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