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MascaraOHara · 27/11/2007 10:56

So had to put London on hold as forgot I had a new appliance being delivered on Sunday.

anyway might be a good thing as useless twit faced arse is taking me out. this will be interesting. he also publicly grabbed me in the office messing around yesterday, only by the shoulders but I've never seen him touch anyone in the office before! well more like grabbed one shoulder and slipped his other hand across my back. I think he might have forgotten himself.

I am definitely going to not put in any effort as he's really more pro-active when I don't.

Although, he asked me why I was dressed up today and did I have a date. I said I wasn't dressed up he said you are as he gestured towards my clothing and then added and you're wearing more eye make up than usual. we bickered about whether I was or wasn't for a while.

x is still being completely lovely. keep hav ing to remind myself it doesn't last on the upside, dd asked if he would go to her nativity when he visited and I think he is going to which will be lovely for her whilst at the same time putting all the gossips in their place by showing them that we are still friends!

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lou33 · 05/12/2007 09:21

i am off to the post office to return the stuff my now ex bf left here

not a good time for all this to be going on but better to have noone then someone i think doesnt deserve me , eh?

MascaraOHara · 05/12/2007 09:22

Blimey, is it the guy who went abroad? are you feeling OK?

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lou33 · 05/12/2007 10:13

no this is the gardener i've been seeing

i'm starting to realise more and more the one who went abroad was a very rare guy, i should have gone with him when i had the chance

exept i didnt really have the chance did i, becauseof the kids?

MascaraOHara · 05/12/2007 11:28

OH NO!! I thought you guys had sorted things out

Very hard to know that you can't be with someone when they are so special to you. Would it be possible for you and the kids to go out there once he's settled in Aus?

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lou33 · 05/12/2007 11:46

No he will have moved on , plus if i had stayed with him he wanted me to have a baby

Wrt myself and gardener, i have suspicions as to why he has been such a nob but of course there is no point in pushing it

he will probably be in and out of my life , it seems a recurring theme, he has just blown a chance of a good relationship thats all

MascaraOHara · 05/12/2007 11:54

You sound v down.

Did you get your other problem sorted, the friend with the bombshell?

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lou33 · 05/12/2007 11:56

no

that all exploded the night before last

MascaraOHara · 05/12/2007 11:57

Oh blimey you are having a rough time, got anything nice planned that could take your mind off things for a bit?

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lou33 · 05/12/2007 11:58

oh my exh is being a shit as well

i am seeing my gp this afternoon

i am meeting a friend for lunch today, and met a different one yesterday, to keep me out and about, if i stay home i think to much then get worse

MascaraOHara · 05/12/2007 12:03

Think that's the worse bit about being a single parents lots of time alone int the evnings to dwell if you're not careful.

Have a great lunch, do you know I haven't heard another peep out of my dd's father since that weird phone call.

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lou33 · 05/12/2007 12:14

thats v strange

i think i need to cultivate more female friends, most of mine are male and since my mate offered me the cash then took it back when i wouldnt shag him, i'm wondering if these friends who want to meet me for lunch are just looking for a bunk up

he better not try it in the mood i am in

OhComeLetUsADiorHim · 05/12/2007 13:28

Lou

zippitippitoes · 05/12/2007 13:30

how do younkno your female friends aren't after a bunk up

MascaraOHara · 05/12/2007 14:34

Oh Lou.. I'm like you, always end up with male friends and not many female ones. I've used to get pissed off though that I'd see loads of them and then when they got shacked up I wouldn't see hide nor hair of them.

I don't make friends easily but I do have a handful of good girlfriends which I value

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lou33 · 05/12/2007 15:11

well obviously some are zippi, but at least they would discuss their feelings afterwards

anyway i had lunch which was nice, but he did hint he'd like a bit more i think, tho i said no love we are just mates

nice food tho

lou33 · 05/12/2007 15:46

oh i was right, he sent me a text saying he would like to see me as more than a friend

he reminds me of alan rickman tho

zippitippitoes · 05/12/2007 15:47

how old is he

zippitippitoes · 05/12/2007 15:48

or did u tell me already

lou33 · 05/12/2007 16:44

in his 40's

zippitippitoes · 05/12/2007 16:51

how suitable

lou33 · 05/12/2007 16:52

not for me i told him im not up for anything right now, i can barely manage my friendships let alone anything else

zippitippitoes · 05/12/2007 16:55

luckjy me i dont have any to manage

sorry im not sure whos thread this is apoloises for using it for convos

OhComeLetUsADiorHim · 05/12/2007 17:07

Lou - I love Alan Rickman - send him my way

lou33 · 05/12/2007 17:12

oh he doesnt look like him as such, well maybe in the chin area, but he just reminds me of him for some reason

zippitippitoes · 05/12/2007 17:15

because he is mad?

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