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He's taking me out

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MascaraOHara · 27/11/2007 10:56

So had to put London on hold as forgot I had a new appliance being delivered on Sunday.

anyway might be a good thing as useless twit faced arse is taking me out. this will be interesting. he also publicly grabbed me in the office messing around yesterday, only by the shoulders but I've never seen him touch anyone in the office before! well more like grabbed one shoulder and slipped his other hand across my back. I think he might have forgotten himself.

I am definitely going to not put in any effort as he's really more pro-active when I don't.

Although, he asked me why I was dressed up today and did I have a date. I said I wasn't dressed up he said you are as he gestured towards my clothing and then added and you're wearing more eye make up than usual. we bickered about whether I was or wasn't for a while.

x is still being completely lovely. keep hav ing to remind myself it doesn't last on the upside, dd asked if he would go to her nativity when he visited and I think he is going to which will be lovely for her whilst at the same time putting all the gossips in their place by showing them that we are still friends!

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MascaraOHara · 28/11/2007 17:13

Yes he is actually. I don't know how I feel.. I'mkind of waiting for it all to go wrong again.

I was teasing him about my mum wanting to meet him and he said something like "see this is the problem with relationships, you have to do families" which I thought was a promising sign lol.. he used the word relationship.

I.m waiting to see if he invites me to meet his mum when she visits at Christmas, that will be very teling.

I bought his Christmas Present today so he better not dump me before Christmas lol.

Dior, it does sound like you and he are really making an effort - I'm so pleased for you and do you know what.. even if it doesn't work you will both know that you gave it your best shot., I really hope he can stop mentioning your weight, it does seem to be the main stumbling point. Have you talked about relate or some couple counselling?

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Dior · 28/11/2007 17:17

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lou33 · 28/11/2007 17:20

i mean this relationship at this stage of my life , with so much other crap going on

i think i might end it, tho i have been umming and ahhing about it for a week or so

Raffaella · 28/11/2007 20:42

MOH, hope this goes well for you.

Choose great restuarant and don't go in fancy dress whatever he says! No masked balls!

Raffaella · 28/11/2007 20:45

Lou -

Dior what is going on ?

lou33 · 28/11/2007 21:36

well i think i have told him its done, by saying fuck you to him

not sure he believes me tho

Baffy · 29/11/2007 08:39

lou are you ok?

MascaraOHara · 29/11/2007 09:42

Lou, you don't sound great at all.. you know we're all here if you want to let off a bit of steam

Bloke seems to be getting better, not only are we going out but we're now going out near where I live which is also near where we work and increases the chance of being seen

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MascaraOHara · 30/11/2007 10:06

I have now booked a table at a nice brasserie type place.

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lou33 · 30/11/2007 10:10

have a nice time

MascaraOHara · 30/11/2007 10:28

have you spoken to chap yet mate?

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lou33 · 30/11/2007 10:29

hanging by a thread atm, tho he is speaking tho coolly, via text

Dior · 30/11/2007 11:00

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lou33 · 30/11/2007 11:04

that ok darling

my moan is here

Dior · 30/11/2007 11:26

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MascaraOHara · 30/11/2007 12:05

Have replied on both of your threads. sorry you guys are both having a tough time of it lately.

I've been asked out next weekend but need an excuse not to go

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Dior · 30/11/2007 12:18

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MascaraOHara · 30/11/2007 12:23

no out with a man who is off PoF. I started talking to him when me and office bloke fell out

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Dior · 30/11/2007 12:30

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lou33 · 30/11/2007 12:54

just tell him you are busy, you havent met him before have you?

lou33 · 30/11/2007 16:47

have managed to keep my bf , tho god knows how lol

Dior · 30/11/2007 16:55

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lou33 · 30/11/2007 16:56

yes but i should have had more control

i wouldnt speak to me after what i said tbh

Dior · 30/11/2007 17:08

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lou33 · 30/11/2007 17:09

ha, well no i doubt you said this to your h