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MascaraOHara · 27/11/2007 10:56

So had to put London on hold as forgot I had a new appliance being delivered on Sunday.

anyway might be a good thing as useless twit faced arse is taking me out. this will be interesting. he also publicly grabbed me in the office messing around yesterday, only by the shoulders but I've never seen him touch anyone in the office before! well more like grabbed one shoulder and slipped his other hand across my back. I think he might have forgotten himself.

I am definitely going to not put in any effort as he's really more pro-active when I don't.

Although, he asked me why I was dressed up today and did I have a date. I said I wasn't dressed up he said you are as he gestured towards my clothing and then added and you're wearing more eye make up than usual. we bickered about whether I was or wasn't for a while.

x is still being completely lovely. keep hav ing to remind myself it doesn't last on the upside, dd asked if he would go to her nativity when he visited and I think he is going to which will be lovely for her whilst at the same time putting all the gossips in their place by showing them that we are still friends!

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Dior · 30/11/2007 18:39

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lou33 · 30/11/2007 18:41

i keep remembering more

Dior · 30/11/2007 18:42

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lou33 · 30/11/2007 18:44

i will if he turns up lol

Dior · 30/11/2007 18:49

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lou33 · 30/11/2007 18:50

lol he's seen it all before

Dior · 30/11/2007 18:53

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MascaraOHara · 02/12/2007 18:58

Hi, not been on all weekend.

Date went very well, had a lovely time only I was dog rough though and had lost my voice (still can't speak lol)

I nearly had to cancel him I felt so bad but really didn't want to, glad I didn't and he paid for everything thankfully as it was well over £100 but was nice and talked about Christmas and stuff.. seemed very relaxed and couple-y

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Dior · 02/12/2007 20:07

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MascaraOHara · 03/12/2007 09:12

yes was very nice and he's already been over to my desk this morning for a chat.. stood far too close to me. He's found out now that it's almost certain we won't be working together from next month so I wonder if that's what has swung it.

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lou33 · 03/12/2007 09:20

sounds much better moh

good luck

MascaraOHara · 03/12/2007 09:53

Fingers crossed hey, how are you?

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lou33 · 03/12/2007 09:58

gettting nowhere fast

Baffy · 03/12/2007 10:03

Great news MoH
Glad it's going well

Dior · 03/12/2007 10:37

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MascaraOHara · 03/12/2007 12:46

yes I think so but that said, he has now been over to my desk about 5 times, has slapped me a couple of times and poked a rather angry but headless spot on my collarbone. I really do not understand him at all

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OhComeLetUsADiorHim · 03/12/2007 12:51

He's a bloke MOH. Different breed!

MascaraOHara · 03/12/2007 13:35

Oooo I love your Christmas name!

Well here's hoping we've turned a corner. Christmas will be telling

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OhComeLetUsADiorHim · 03/12/2007 14:15

Yes, it does seem as if you have moved on to a 'stage' now. That can only be a good thing...

MascaraOHara · 03/12/2007 16:03

I can't relax into it though. I think I'm frightened of him going weird again.

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OhComeLetUsADiorHim · 03/12/2007 16:51

Yeah well, maybe he just needed to get his head round it. Relax and enjoy!

MascaraOHara · 04/12/2007 10:22

Hopefully, I'm not sure.. I kind of swing from thinkiing that it's brill and we've turned a corner then to thinking it's all going to fall apart again. I'm trying to brush my concerns under the carpet as I don't want to bring my negativity into the relationship (as think that will ruin it any way). I'm thinking one week at a time at the moment. It's easier now I feel less for him I think.

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MascaraOHara · 04/12/2007 15:55

OK so the good behaviour lasted until today. He has made me SOOOO f*cking mad.

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Tinkerbel5 · 04/12/2007 18:19

what's he done moh and can we tell you that you are too good for him and to move on and find someone else who will treat you better ?

MascaraOHara · 05/12/2007 09:02

Lol, yes you can tell me that. Though I decided that I was probably being unreasonable when I got home, he was having a really bad day and I was just being hypersensitive (he didn't actually do anything wrong I don't think). I sent him a text when I got in at about 6 telling him not to work too late and he said he was leaving soon as had had enough (very unlike him to leave before 7-7:30) he's coming round tonight so have decided to give him some TLC, just wondering what to cook...

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