Hi, I have a problem with my narcissistic ex. We divorced over 3 years ago, but share care of our son 50/50 by court order. I bought a PS4 for my son's latest birthday. He had to go to his dad the day after for at least a week, so we didn't have time to set it up. I agreed for him to take it to his dad's and have some playtime there instead of waiting. So his dad set it up and bought some games with the gift cards I bought. Since then, the device has been in my house. Fast forward 6 months, and he is trying to use the PS4 to reward or punish our son depending on how he is doing with home-schooling, and control me as well I feel. He has set the parental controls on the PS4 without consulting me (!) to certain hours of the day, so that he csn reduce them if son doesn't complete work at his place. This obviously has an effect on my day. I asked him to give up the controls and give them to my account instead, he refused, or set up a shared email with an account, that we both can access, he refused. He has changed the hours a bit when I asked, so they don't impact our weekend, but I don't like the idea of him controlling a device that I bought and that is only used in my household. To make things worse, we tried deleting his account to see if we could get rid of the restrictions, however, this removed my son's favourite game, which was bought by my ex with my gift cards after the birthday. To get it back, we need his password to reinstall his account, but he is pretending to be too dumb to get his password changed (he can't remember it) and is keeping us waiting until Monday when he is 'going to call Sony' as if that helped! I seriously don't know whether he is this dumb or whether he is just trying to annoy me. In any case, I feel seriously uncomfortable about all this. I don't want him controlling me again, it was hard enough to get out of the marriage and I thought I was safe now!