ok i know there is a post strike, DD (11) didnt bother getting me a card, i heard her say the other day that she was going to make one, but this morning she said she didnt have time, i had a right go at her, now i feel really bad for making her cry, i was in tears and still am typing this. Am also thinking well hey its not her fault, she was out with her dad on saturday shopping, could she have asked to let her go in somewhere and get a card for me? I feel like the most horrible mother in the world, its only a birthday after all!