Hi, I have never posted on here before but here goes...in 2011 I bumped into an ex-work colleague who apparently used to fancy me (long time before) we swapped numbers and agreed to meet up for a drink.
During the drinks he confessed he still liked me, fast forward a few weeks later we have started having an affair. He is married with two children.
This continues sporadically until 2014 and stops because I become pregnant. Which wasn't planned. I wasn't in love with him. But being pregnant changed everything.
I became shell-shocked and during the early stages he tried more than once to get me to have an abortion. I even went to a clinic but when they called me I didn't get up.
Fast forward to now and my beautiful funny boy has started to ask about his father. I just don't know what to say. I gloss over it by talking about the family we have and always tell him how much he is loved.
But I know the questions will keep coming and I'm not sure how to address them.