As you probably know dh left three months ago and other woman is pregnant. Have told him I will never stop him seeing his kids but other woman not to see them until I am ready for that. He has now agreed to this since seeing a solicitor - she might have talked some sense into him. Found out yesterday other woman met my dd's the day after husband and I split when I went to spend a couple of days with my mother in law. He has promised this won't happen again.
He phoned tonight and admitted other woman was coming up this weekend even though it is supposed to be his weekend with girls. He has been away for a week and asked if he could just have them Sunday and promised other woman won't be there. He seems to think he can tell me one truth after all the lies over the last few months and I should suddenly trust him again. Is he just stupid or what???? Can't he see what he is putting me through???? Doesn't he realise he has to earn my trust and respect again and that is going to take time??? He had the cheek to say "you do realise me and is permanent". What a twat.
I have asked him not to bring other woman up here. He has two other towns where her parents own houses he can go visit her. This is my home town and I have no wish to bump into her at moment. Can't trust myself not to punch her in face whether she is pregnant or not. I have ended up with shingles because of all the stress he has and is putting me through. I thought I was doing all right up to now but the stres has suddenly come and bit me in the arse. I WON'T LET HIM WIN AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH