Does anyone elses nrp cancel the morning of having child as they have been" ill "for days, this is twice this month now, first time i found out he went out with mates instead of having ds. Yet has a go at me when ds is poorly and i try to cancel, he always says to me well i can look after him. Hes not playing an active part in ds life he thinks the 6 hours for 2 days a week while he sits at his house constitues good contact. I provide food nappies clothes when he goes. Ds is 2. He has a go at me at any given chance but expects me to sit and wait for him to decide if he is coming or not. He works 4 on 4 off and is meant to send me his rota at the beginning of every months but hasnt done it since june ive sat and worked it all out myself. This is all court ordered. Its so much hard work trying to just keep contact going, i feel he is now using it to control me. We have to meet in public becauae of dv and we only contact through email and contact book. Any advice on what i should do? Shall i wait around or speak to my solicitor again? 😔