What would you think of your child's father saying this to you " I can't come and see my baby Christmas morning because Christmas morning is too busy so I will just pop down Boxing Day". This is a single man who lives on his own , drives and lives around half an hour away. He obviously wants to spend the day at his parents who live 5 mins away from him. A lot of men who's ex's say they can't see their kids on Christmas morning are devastated and would jump at the chance. Imagine him saying to someone else oh I had the chance to see my baby on Christmas morning but I took the option not too as it's just too busy. Don't understand what's busy as it's just DS and I that live here so it's not like my family will all be here either. What an excuse. Just needed to rant. I have just said ok but I would have loved to say what I really thought.