So there is a court order in place made in june our son sees his dad twice a week on his dads 2nd and 3rd day off work as he works 4 on 4 off. At the end of the order is says any additional contact to be arranged my both parties. Since the order hes demanded over nights, bonfire night, his birthday says im selfish as its not his day to have him. He never asked for any of this at court. He has said he asked to see him on christmas but he hasnt asked me. Ds is 2. My ex expects me to wait to see if he wants him on these days before i make plans. But as he works i do make plans for days he doesnt have him. He works nights and sleeps days. We have a contact book he never writes in. He emails me constantly. He laughs at me infront of our son when handing him back as ds cries, dad says aww you want to stay with daddy. Yet our son cries when i hand over in the morning and i say your our with daddy mummy will see you later love you and kiss him goodbye. We meet in public because of past DV (emotional and mental) im just at the end of my tether now. Do i back down and let him get everything hes asked for or do i stick to the order? Any advice would be great x