nutcracker, pirategirl, and all other down mum's with crap ex's, come on down we are going to get thru this and share it all.

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so if you fancy a moan, even a laught at your completely ridiculous sitch with your ex, please come here and rant.

WE WILL NOT BE UNDERMINED ANY LONGER !!!!

WE ARE FANTASTIC, CAPABLE MUMS.

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My crap ex is coming over tomorrow from Ireland to stay with dd (5). He hasn't seen her in 9 months and has only had contact via a few phonecalls. I'm feeling aprehensive.....

hello ladies,

god i'm knackered too today, keep eating sweet things.

I am glad u r sticking to your guns nut over ex not contacting you, but i know how difficult it is, cos you do need a break from them.

mine phoned on thurs, but only cos i emailed his mother,i updated my thread, what a complete donkey cock he is.

Donkey cock hahahaha might call him that when I greet him at the airport tomorrow hehehehe!

He's staying in my house for the week whilst I stay with DP. Just done a Tesco shop online to be delivered the first day he's there so I can be sure that at least he's got food to feed her! Question is....will he remember?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=1400&threadid=367008&stamp=070816225455

my thread,

yes my mate in usa has used this term for her ex.

I sometimes just call him, a 'cock' tho.!!!

durdle, you are a saint, he is very lucky you are allowing this.

cool nuttie that all sounds great Xx

similar to me!

durdle - i am such a shit mum that when i went on hols with my mates for 4 days i left no food in the house for the kids!!
ooops my ex has even more ammunition to use against me now..

Oooh a saint... I like it! DP is not too happy about it- thinks I am making it too easy for him but I guess I'm just desperate to salvage their relationship and DD is soooo excited about him coming.

I'm worried about her when he leaves though. Especially as 3 days after he leaves we're moving in with DP in a new house so its going to be a lot of change for her.

Any advice?

allgonebellyup- haha you must have been too excited to get away!

What are you doing at uni bellyup ?

PG, just read your update and couldn't think of anything nice to say, so didn't say anything LOL.

Durdle - You are very good letting your xp stay in your home, I couldn't do that.

God my kids are driving me nuts, squabble squabble squabble.

well at first i wanted to do midwifery but theres no way i could do night shifts and be on call etc, as have no help!

so hoping to do speech and language therapy next yr, if i get accepted.

I looked into speech and language therapy but was worried that i'd do it and then there not be any jobs at the end.

I have specifically applied for the part time access course over 2 years because then when I eventually go to uni, my mum will be approaching retirement and has said she is more than happy to have the kids as often as I need her too, so I could do shift work then if I had to.

cool that sounds fab, your mum is a diamond!

Just realised that my comment about speech therapy sounded very pessamistic and there you are applying next year, sorry, was not meant to come over that way.