Hi I have my final hearing coming up. My ex has rejected Cafcass report and so this is contested hearing. My children are unhappy going to his and have reported to school and Cafcass that they are scared of their dad. It’s been nearly 10 months and they still haven’t settled into alternative weekends. Both children have general anxiety issues, one has been in therapy and is being supported by child and adolescent mental health.
I’m petrified of the cross examination and given his track record the character assassination. I know I have worked so hard to support and encourage the children but it’s all been too much. I’ve begged my ex to take a step back to enable us to move forward but instead he demands more. Anybody got a similar experience and insight into the day in court and on the potential for the magistrates to go against Cafcass? TIA
I want the kids to have a relationship with their dad, but a healthy one based in love and respect.