@PoffleWaffleWoo
You do understand that your experience is not statistically representative, right? I'm not doubting your experience (and I am sure you do great work supporting female victims of domestic abuse, which is so, so important), but there is a host of reasons why the cases you see may not be representative - such as the type of cases you work on, the type of organisation you work for, etc.
The British Crime Survey consistently shows that around 1 in 3 victims of domestic abuse are men. I accept that there is a strong gender element to domestic abuse in that it disproportionately affects women. And the severity of the violence inflicted upon female victims unquestionably tends to be far worse than that experienced by men. But that is not the same as "doesn't affect men". There is a wealth of sociological and criminological evidence out there to show that women do offend. But it tends to be ignored by some in the field, because it undermines the ideological standpoint that many organisations take.
Your default assumption that men are only really likely to be victims of domestic abuse at the hands of other men, otherwise they are probably actually secretly the perpetrator, is incredibly dangerous. There is already considerable evidence that male victims are much less likely to come forward and seek help than female victims are, and attitudes like yours are a large part of the problem.
Your attitude is also deeply offensive to men like me, who have been victims of domestic abuse and domestic violence (at the hands of my ex-wife, before you assume that I'm gay). And no, I wasn't a perpetrator. I went through years of controlling behaviour, and terrible rages from my (suspected BPD) ex-wife. I finally left her the second time she assaulted me. The first time, she pinned me up against the kitchen units and hit me repeatedly in the face, because she didn't want me to use Facebook, because sometimes women would like my posts. The second time she slammed a laptop down on both my hands, because she didn't want us to go to my niece's birthday party. I doubt you could ever understand the helplessness of being a man, who is utterly incapable of raising a hand to a woman, having to simply take the blows, and beg the woman who is supposed to love you, to let you go because you can't bring yourself to even push her away to make an escape. That doesn't fit with your narrative. Men may be killed less than women, but that doesn't mean damage isn't done.
Thankfully, I didn't run into attitudes like yours. My parents called the Police, and the two women officers who attended were great. The female nurses at the hospital, who checked my badly swollen hands for fractures, were also great. So was my female family lawyer. And so were the people at The Mankind Initiative, who I turned to for support because so many domestic abuse organisations share your view that men are the problem, and women are always the victims.
All victims of domestic abuse deserve support. With the greatest of respect to you, and the important work that you do, this thread was about the child victims of parental alienation (because it is a form of abuse), and the men who suffer as a result of that behaviour. It is not helpful to come on here and suggest that male victims of female-perpetrated domestic abuse are lying, or to minimise the propensity of female offenders to abuse. If a man came onto a thread about fenale victims to suggest that they are lying, or to demand that the discussion was turned onto male-orientated issues, there would be cries of "whatabouttery" and "what about the menz".
Please - if you don't understand, or aren't willing to accept, that women commit abuse too, do not come on here to tell those of us who have lived with the effects of female-perpetrated abuse (whether that's the OP, from her mother, or any man who has had an abusive partner) that it doesn't exist, or that we're lying.