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Ricky2019 · 10/08/2019 08:43

PLEASE HELP

I recently had my first child 2 weeks ago
Me and the mother decided to mutually split up before the birth
I have been there every step of the way
I brought everything for her and the baby
Also was at every scan and at the birth I been there after as much as I can also
But she using the baby as a weapon
I have to walk on egg shells and do all she says I found out 2 days ago she done the birth certificate with out me and I'm sadly not on there :(
HOW DO I GO ABOUT GETTING ON THERE
OR WHAT DO I DO
I ALSO WANT PARENTAL RIGHTS AND TO SEE MY CHILD WITH OUT FEAR OF IT STOPPING
PLEASE HELP

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whereisthebloodypostman · 10/08/2019 08:49

Sorry, I think she made the right decision to leave you off the birth certificate if you aren't together and she is the main carer.

eve34 · 10/08/2019 15:27

Get legal advice. Most solicitors will give you free 45 mins advice. Sort this now so you know where you stand moving forward.

hatter69 · 10/08/2019 17:55

@whereisthebloodypostman really ? He is still the dad whether they are together or not?
Surely he has as much right to be on the birth certificate as she does ?

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