For the past month I though my 13 yr old son's father and new step-mother was actually working with me to help raise my son. Later I found out his step mom (which told me herself) offered to get him a deer if he moved in with them. She has a son by someone else and my son has 2 other brothers from his father and another step-mom. All of those boys ages are from 6-8. A week before my son decided he was moving in with his dad all I heard was how much money his dad made and how much his dad spent on this or that. However, I hacked his tablet and found out that he was using my battle I just beat with cancer and his dad's heart attacks to get a girl to feel sorry for him. But I was told that I was over reacting and wanting a pitty party. During this time I was also trying to get my son to spend time with his dad and help him due to the latest heart attack. So I didn't even tell them about the other stuff I read on the tablet. Now its been almost 2 weeks and I havent heard from him at all. My family and Pastor says he was manipulating me which hurts a lot and to not contact him. But Im afraid they will turn him totally against me. I have a 17 yr old daughter that says he mentioned that he was going to his dads cause he had money and I was always on his case about the computer. Which is true. He wanted to sleep all day and stay up all night so yes I was on him for that. But should I keep quiet and see if he contacts me or should I try and contact him an let him know that I miss him?