I have recently become a single mother whilst pregnant due to the father of my child playing away.
I feel I am now in a predicament because he know longer wants to be involved, he hadn't told any of his family that I was pregnant so they are none the wiser, he also has an older child whose mother isn't aware of me being pregnant either.
I'm stuck in a rut not knowing whether I should message both his family and also the mother of his 1st child, and explain that I'm having his baby and I would like them to be involved if they choose to or not? It would be entirely their choice?
Has anyone else been in this situation before and can give me some advice on what to do?