Mine seem to just gravitate towards me. Some are glorious independent diva mums, others are man obsessed she wolves in disguise, either way they are off key (some in a good way, others eh-hem not so...) Anyway, is there a better voting process than first come first serve either stay forever besties or f*## me over completely? I am in need of making some new friends as am (fairly newly) a single mum again, so what are you're red flags for single mum friends?