Wrote on here the other day about not coping with DDs (8m) dad and the rubbish he keeps throwing at me. Anyway DD was ill and came out with a viral rash yesterday. I said yesterday’s contact couldn’t happen as she really wasn’t well. He wanted me to bring her to a park. I said no. Anyway she seemed happier today so arranges for her to see him today. I had to take her there and pick her back up as apparently no way of him doing one journey like he usually would but when I got there there were cars on the drive so he could have done a journey. Anyway I pass over DD and he just walks off. Then have his mum calling me asking me what to feed her etc and then made out like I’d allowed DD to get a really bad rash!!! Then went to pick her up, got there 7 mins early and called to say I was outside but was told he would bring her out in 7 mins!!! I’m so sick to death of the pettiness and constantly being made to feel like a crap mum and like I’m the devil. Also found out over the weekend that he’s claiming I was domestically violent/abusive towards him! And also found out that he’s not even paying the legal minimum CM. He never offered any petrol money today either. I’m not working atm and I’ve paid for absolutely everything for DD. It took us going to mediation for him to accept that he should buy her some bottles, milk and nappies for when he has her rather then me providing (even tho I provide everything else, car seat, pram, clothes etc). I’m just so fed up of it. I just get treated like an absolute mug and get told I’m stopping him from seeing his DD but I’m honestly trying everything I possibly can but just continue to get treated like crap and now for him to claim DV from me.