Husband had a cocaine addiction and predilection for Ukrainian escorts. Took me a while but finally showed him the door last September . Hardest thing to do but I'm happier and the house is calmer without him here.
The kids have decided they don't want any contact with him for now and have not seen him since January. He's never explained it telephoned them, he sends random texts once every 4-6 weeks and they don't reply. Father's Day has ended and they never replied to his message this morning nor did they buy him a card. I've told them that I'm absolutely fine with them seeing him and I've never told them the gory details of my ex's behaviour . I've always said he loves them very much but he's just not capable of much more whilst he's taking drugs. He took cocaine while he lived here and my son found some in his wallet so they are aware he has issues .
I'm wondering if I should push them to see him ? They are happy and very loved but jay not sure if I should intervene or not ? Any advice out there ?