So background- ex abusive and controlling. Dd traumatised as was I, I had ptsd and have no contact with him. I am resident parent. Court ordered just phone updates re school. No coming there or near me etc.
Dd 's court ordered contact was reduced significantly as she was coming back dis regulated and distressed. ( age5)
She's been really struggling at school. We are both waiting for trauma therapy, in meantime school agreed to reduce her hours there .
Ex has got wind of this and has sent a bullying solicitors letter saying he did not give consent for her to be 'homeschooled' and he wants all reports and therapists to be made available to him.
But he is the source of our trauma.
He has pr.
He surely can't be privy to the support I am seeking to heal us from his abuse?