Unfortunatly it is still here at my house but it's a start I suppose.
Every week Dd1 goes to ballet lessons. On top pf her lesson I was paying out £5.50 a week to take us all there on the bus and then I was having to drag all 3 kids round the shops and up and down to ballet, and they hated, and I was spending every saturday moaning at them and getting a headache.
So, rang xp this morning to sk him if he would come over every sat and take dd1 to ballet, and then bring her back meaning he could then stay for an hour and see the other kids. I will still pay Dd1's bus fare but thats only £1.40.
Tbh the though of having to have him here every sat afternoon doesn't exactly fill me with delight, but at the mo it seems to be the only option that will keep me sane ish.