I don't often look on here, but a quick scan through some of the threads makes me feel good about the fact that my kids know who their dad is...know I am there for them...pay for them...collect and drop them home or to school ..feed and clothe them...do homework with them....wash them and their clothes...and generally give a shit about them. The way my ex acts, is as if I do none, rather than all of the above. I know that my kids will know all of this, so I guess that's all that matters. Seems there are a lot of shit parents out there.