We have done another year and
We're still here - we have survived despite our darkest hours
Our children are great individuals who even though may drive us mad at times know that we are there for them and love them.
Have weathered even more unfair crap from the media about our situations (thanks channel 5 and the fail) but are still a million times better than those who believe it.
Our Christmas may have to be a shared one on not as grand a scale as their friends but we know that just as much (if not more considering how inventive we usually end up being!) care and consideration has gone into it.
So he kind to yourself and be proud of yourself - you have spent another year doing the work of 2 people so you have every right to be proud of yourself/knackered with life/ tearful/however you want so long as it's not self negative because it can be a lonely path you've walked, not always sure and no one who knows your child like you do to say 'you're doing ok' whenever you've had a wobble.
We are bloody fantastic!