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Divorce 18 months after split equity question

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Ladybird1979 · 18/12/2016 12:47

Split from husband 18 months ago. He released some equity from our home. We had a house worth 350k with 117k left on mortgage. He gave me 65k as this was all he could afford.

He stayed at the 4 bed house we had. I bought 2 bedroom to raise our son.

I did this because it was unbearable living under the same roof and wanted out.

I didn't say this was a settlement only a way of moving out.

I want to get divorced. Have I shot myself in the foot for the remaining 50k? I haven't signed anything to say I wouldn't have a 50% share of equity. Only that I came off the mortgage.

I think in my haste to leave I've financially done myself. I will seek legal advice also I'd just be keen to know if anyone else has been through the same.

My ex says the 65k was the settlement.

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KimmySchmidtsSmile · 18/12/2016 12:55

Hmm Then he's a cock. But you knew that. Hopefully someone will be here in a minute but he definitely owes you 50k. How you get it back means getting lawyered up but I hope someone similar who managed to comes on.

KimmySchmidtsSmile · 18/12/2016 16:10

Bumping for you OP. Or maybe ask MNHQ to repost in Legal?

Ladybird1979 · 18/12/2016 18:04

Many thx

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Lostalot · 10/01/2017 22:35

no don't worry. if you haven't signed anything its an 'informal' agreement. seek advice from a solicitor and get a formal agreement agreed. once its formal you can't change it again.

Fidelia · 11/01/2017 10:24

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