Hi I will try and keep this brief.
My ex partner and I have a contact order for our dd. He is entitled to eow and 2 evenings during his week that he doesn't have her at the weekend.
He has only turned up to his midweek contact the first week and has not shown for the last 3 months but continues to make the weekend contact. His reason, transport issues. I live 1 hour away from him. I have not make a big deal of this and accommodate him where I can.
Anyway this weekend, I e tonight my daughter is sick, she has been off school for two days with sickness and feeling pretty miserable and tired. I informed him she couldn't make the journey tonight but might be up for it tomorrow if she is better. He told me he couldn't make it tomorrow as he has no transport, despite me offering to meet him half way if she is up to it and make up his lost Friday night next weekend. He isn't happy with this and demanded he take her to which I said no.
He went to his solicitor who contacted mine to say fine she is unwell but I need to give him my weekend next weekend (mucking up a pre arranged trip) or else I'll be in contempt of court?? All because he isn't happy to get on a bus to meet me half way tomorrow? Is that right?
Also where do I stand with him not showing for mid weeks? If he can't compromise then I don't see why I should continue to do so.