Ds dad and I split during pregnancy on good terms,we had a casual agreement re custody. He had him one night at weekend and welcome to come visit during the week.
Ex has arsed about a couple times by leaving ds with his one of his parents ( who both have regular contact with ds in their own) for no apparent reason.
I have had enough now and want to put a more formal agreement in place so have text him (no point calling as he's in a mood had radio silence for over a week!) proposing that he has him one full weekend and a few hours during week and I have him the following weekend. I am still awaiting a reply.
If he refuses what is my next step?
Am I in the wrong at all?
Sorry it's a bit long and grammar etc isn't perfect I am still new to this and using a cracked screen phone lol