Hi I'm looking for some advice. I haven't posted before so please bear with me.
I have 2 teenagers and an 11 year old. I have been on my own with them for about 3 years, previous to this I had a couple of really bad relationships and at one point my 2 older kids moved in with their dad (he was/is very manipulative and had a big hand in alienating them from me to the point they hated me). They are back with me now and all is well, sort of. I recently bumped into a lovely man with who I had a relationship with a long time ago. I'm not sure what to do, I had strong feelings for this man but at the time I had to concentrate on getting my kids back (which i did). My whole family, including my children, will not be happy if I were to date again. I would go as far as to say there could be a chance that they would move back in with their dad. Do I stay single until they leave home?