Hi
Just wondering if anyone has a similar position, my ds is 11m and have been separated from his father for months now, as I've been on mat leave we've been doing ad hoc contact depending on xh shifts.
The problem now is I am going back to work part time and xh work pattern is completely sporadic, he works late shifts, early shifts and nights with different days off each week. He is wanting me to agree for him to have ds whichever days off he happens to have each week ie this week it's thurs fri, next week nothing at all, following week just Monday. This creates a nightmare for me with childcare when I am at work and also as when I'm back at work I want to spend my days off with ds not sat at home alone
I've offered to go to meditation as xh is now being quite nasty over it all, has anyone had a similar situation and come up with a fair arrangement?
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Gracey79 · 20/02/2016 11:45
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