So, I'm a single mum to a disabled 12 year old, over the summer I met a guy, we dated a while, it was fairly casual. Now, I as sterilised 3 years ago, for various reasons, so we presumed all was safe on that front.
Que discovering I was pregnant (I only did the pregnancy test because he was convinced I was pregnant so was planning on proving him wrong)
As he was too busy too meet up at the time, I sent him a picture of the pregnancy test, saying I was in shock - didn't hear anything back but message delivered -
doctor sent me for a v early scan to confirm all ok as obviously being sterilised we were worried about ectopic etc so after not hearing from him for a few days I text again to say yes was definitely pregnant & didn't know what to do.
This time the message didn't deliver & my calls wouldn't go through, obviously he'd blocked my number. Seemed pointless sending more messages so I didn't until my 12 week scan when I sent a pic, which I sent via watsap- saw him come online, read the message & didn't reply. Two weeks later, he disappeared from watsap & facebook, I assumed he'd blocked me from both.
Well I decided on one final push, and turned up on his doorstep on Tuesday (now 20 weeks pregnant)
He claimed he hasn't got my messages & didn't even know I was pregnant, thought me not texting him was just me dumping him....
He did look genuinely shocked.
Has asked for a few days to think about things, and then will call me....
It's been 3 days, it's a new year - he hasn't called.... I'm not going to hear from him am I?
I genuinely didn't expect him to walk away I didn't think he was like that.
I feel deceived- I gave him a get out of jail free card, I understand this wasn't planned, so I understand if he doesn't want to be involved.... But couldn't he just say that outright?
It's driving me bloody mad!!