Why is it ok?

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Why is it ok for some women to stand by a man that does not see his children? Makes no effort to see his children but yet they are in a so called good relationship and he sees his other children to different women bar 1? I am struggling with this one tonight someone please ground me

I suppose you could argue that the child is not the girlfriends responsibility but I couldn't do it personally...
I assume you are the mother of the child that isn't seeing the father? I'd be so angry and so sad in that situation..

I am yes. I'm glad he's not because he has substance abuse problems although appears very normal on the outside. He's with a woman now who has a reputation as doing the same. Why is it ok for her? It wouldn't be for me. And especiallyb when he sees his other kids but purposely excludes mine. I'm just having a wobble I think

Lots of women think they can change them and they will be the ones to make them stick around.

I couldn't do it