It is my Exs bday and we always sit down and I ask them, within reason what would they like to get / do with Dad on his b day.
He needs suggestions of things to do with his 3DSs!!
We have had some interesting things bought in the past - nothing mega expensive, but usually things they want to do with him. Models, puzzles, go to cinema.
So this year the same, they wanted to spend the day with Dad ( not me) doing something they all love - him and them.
So I get the tickets, tell him and think nothing of it. The day dawns and he phones me to tell me his new DP has bought tickets for him and her and her two DCs to do exactly the same thing, but does not want the boys to go, as 5 kids would be too much!
The woman is such a selfish vindictive, selfish ................ It was not about me, it was about him and his 3 boys. I point out he could then take them all but she will not sit with her 2 on their own and let EX sit with his 3DCs. I am so angry, that he is so gutless and she is so spiteful.
It is a real boys thing to do, their fave uncle has stepped in and will take them, I just hope they do not meet up. I can not trust myself to go, because if we met up, I would thump her.
Why are people so petty and nasty?