Hi,
I am a single mom to my 2 yr old son who's name is Brendan.
I had left my ex when my son was almost 7 months.
My ex is 'really nuts' as he change from good to bad to = selfish with control.
I was telling my aunt the other day I don't care about mark he's not going to 'ruin my family time' to visit with friends and I don't care if he threatens to leave early either because I'm not gonna 'waste all my time sitting on my tush' because he can't find anything to do or think his only thing to do is to go out to get food & bring it in.
I will tell him he won't change my apartment like last time no way if he tries he gets booted to home . Say I do not want him in my place because he's making me feel unsafe and I know if my mom showed up he would leave right away - so that's the plan.
I go to her he's my son's father by blood only because he's not a "Real Father" to him anyhow.
Even though through only see Mr B for once out of a year he still thinks it right to 'lecture' me on the Paretning Style I do when "he's not even here to 'be a father' .