potty training and access days

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My ea narc ex has our dd one day a week.
He doesn't want to do any of the boring stuff, just the ice-cream and zoo and photo opportunities.
I'm in the middle of potty training, how can i remain consistent with it (dd 2.8,and instigated potty training) when he won't bother?

I would start as soon as she gets back. send her in pants with some changes of clothes ( if you send clothes) and leave him to it. Say she is wearing big girl pants and wave her off

It is his to deal with may not help you if he puts her back in nappies but I can tell you my DS would not wear a nappy after he was trained

Don't provide nappies just pants. Tell him to take her to the loo etc, persist. She will probably want to keep it up and then he'll have to go along with it.