Quick first date advice!

[deerkitty]

I've just plucked up the courage to do internet dating after 4 years of being single.

I have a date tomorrow supposedly but he hasn't made any arrangements re a time just a suggestion of where we go and what we do.

I don't want to push it in case he isn't interested so do I just leave it and wait to see if he contacts me?

I hate this!

Sorry I have just seen this! Have you been texting him / talking? Just say something like, "so are we still on for tomorrow? What time do you want to meet?"

Ooh I'm excited on your behalf, I can't remember the last date I went on! Let me know how it goes!

I agree with silly

No online. Will do it now and if I don't hear back then it's a no go.

Shit ok it's on! What do I wear?

Woohooo!!

Jeans, nice top and heels?

Depends where you are going and what kind of time?

yep, jeans heels and a nice top. if just a drink maybe more of a casual top than dressy. good luck

Pub after work so work clothes.

Well I'd maybe spruce lips and eye lashes after work and maybe change a piece of clothing? If it's literally just a drink straight from work you might feel too dressy in nice heels? But then if it's a night is still young....who knows

Make sure you smell nice (with perfume I mean). Guysalways comment on perfume.
Just try to relax and be yourself. Im excited for you :0)

Ok am wearing:

Dress that falls just above knee by itself is quite dressy but in wearing a little black cardigan on top buttoned up so it looks more like a skirt .

Black tights, ankle boots with a heel.

Perfume check
Make up bag check
Clean pants check

Will keep you updated via live feed tonight xx

sounds lovely. exciting! have fun. make sure someone knows where you're going.

Oh so exciting! Give us the details later! X

Clean pants Oh aye

Have a great time - let us know how it goes.

Hmm on way home. Sober..

The clean pants jinxed you! I'm assuming it wasn't great?

not good then?

It was fine and pleasant. I don't know what I was expecting.

Practice maybe?

Meh

That's the word I was looking for.

Definitely a practice date. Could be worse, I met a guy couple of weeks ago seemed lovely, we arranged a date for next week and he's gone borderline stalker! So now no date, call screening and text avoidance

deer put it down to experience and keep looking.

Don't let it put you off dating. I just started dating and havibg a ball. so exciting. like being a teenager again!!
onwards and upwards xx