As a sgl mum I often find my X's idea of quality time with his daughter differs from mine. Why doesn't he 'do' something with her instead of just watch the TV. This used to introduce xtra friction into our meetings and now he sees much less of her (since I returned to UK)I often end up suggesting activities & accompanying both of them to get him out of my house. Its an odd situation I know, but my daughter appreciates it. Anyway, why does he never look at free events at galleries, museums etc and think of her? Am I alone in flng this would help my stress levels if I saw him being proactive? Do other fathers behave the same? And of they don't, where do THEY get their ideas from?