Hi,
I am after some advice. I split with my ex when I was 3 months pregnant and I am now 8. Since the split I have had nothing but an onslaught of messages saying he is going to take me to court for custody and that he will be having her overnight from when she is born. I have kept all of these messages.
I have tried to keep things amicable and am starting to get to my wits end now. He has been kept updated of appointments and times so that he has an opportunity to attend these if he so wishes. He has only attended 2 scan appointments.
When we found out that we were having a little girl he sat there in front of the sonographer and said "I'm gutted it's not a boy" he has since made it perfectly clear that he did not want a daughter.
He is also very aggressive and angry in his messages and the way that he speaks to me. He has previously been arrested for "hitting" his ex which he claims not to be true. He has also had counselling as he tried to commit suicide two years ago.
I have tried so hard not to let myself get too stressed with this, but with my due date looming closer, everything is starting it play on my mind.
Any advice would be gratefully received.